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<br><br>=======================================<br> 친구를 얻고 싶거든 당신이 먼저 친구가 되라: (박충웅 , 2009-09-17)<br> <TABLE class=cContentHeader align=center> <TBODY> <TR> <TD style="COLOR: #1f3425"><SPAN class=cB_Title><B><FONT size=5>♣친구를 얻고 싶거든 당신이 먼저 친구가 되라♣</FONT></B></SPAN></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE> <P align=center><IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODQuanBnLnRodW1i&filename=184.jpg"></P> <P><BR></P> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG>친구를 얻고 싶거든</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 당신이 먼저 친구가 되라. </STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 우선 자기 자신과</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 친구가 되는 일부터 시작하라. </STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG> </STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/34/blog/2008/09/10/12/34/48c740393a3fb&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG> <FONT size=5>사람이 갖는 가장 큰 욕망은 </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 다른 사람에게 필요한 존재가 </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 되고 싶다는 것이다.</FONT> </STRONG> </FONT> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODYuanBnLnRodW1i&filename=186.jpg"> <STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5>그러므로 다른 사람들이 </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 그러한 느낌을 가질 수 있도록 도와주라. </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 사람이 가질 수 있는 </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/9/blog/2008/09/10/12/35/48c74072a28f1&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG> <FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5>가장 큰 덕은 친절이다. </FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 모든 사람을 사랑 할 수는 없지만 </FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 모든 사람에게 친절 할 수는 있다.</FONT> </FONT></STRONG> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODcuanBnLnRodW1i&filename=187.jpg"> <FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG>다른 사람들을</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 감동시키려고 애쓰지 말라.</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 다른 사람들에게 당신을</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 감동시키는 재미를 맛보게 하라.</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG> </STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/20/blog/2008/09/10/12/35/48c740872ff8e&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG> <FONT size=5>적극적인 사람이 되라.</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 적극적인 사람은</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 다른 사람들에게 호감을 주지만</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 소극적인 사람은 거부감을 준다.</FONT> </STRONG></FONT> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODguanBnLnRodW1i&filename=188.jpg"> <STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5>상대방에게 말을 잘하는 것보다는</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 그 사람의 말을 잘 들어줌으로써</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 그 사람에게 더 큰 영향을 끼칠 수 있다.</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/30/blog/2008/09/10/12/35/48c7409c290ba&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> <FONT size=5>남의 흉을 보는 경우</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 그 대상이 되는 사람보다</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 흉을 보는 사람의 가치가 더 떨어진다.</FONT> </FONT></STRONG> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODkuanBnLnRodW1i&filename=189.jpg"> <FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG>상대방의 이름을 부르도록 하라.</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 대화 할 때는</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000 size=5><STRONG> 그 사람의 이름을 자주 사용하라.</STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG> </STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/21/blog/2008/09/10/12/36/48c740b10a707&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG> <FONT size=5>상대에게 쾌활함을 전달하라.</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 의견 차이는 반드시 있게 마련이다.</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 하지만 그런 의견 차이는</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><FONT color=#000000><STRONG><FONT size=5> 공손한 태도로 대하면 해결 될 수 있다.</FONT> </STRONG> </FONT> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xOTAuanBnLnRodW1i&filename=190.jpg"> <STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5>어떤 사람을</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 놀리고 싶은 생각이 들 때는</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 자신이 놀림을 당할 경우를 생각하라.</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/10/blog/2008/09/10/12/36/48c740c69ec6a&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> <FONT size=5>사람들을 상대 할 때는</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 참다운 관심을 표시하라.</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 그리고 상대방이 자신에 관해</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 얘기 할 기회를 주라. </FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/15/blog/2008/09/10/12/36/48c740d9e92cc&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> <FONT size=5>미소를 짓는 데는 돈 한푼 안 들지만</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 미소에는 큰 부담이 따른다.</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 그것은 또 자신을 기분좋게 할 뿐 아니라</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 주위의 모든 사람을 기분 좋게 해준다.</FONT> </FONT></STRONG> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODUuanBnLnRodW1i&filename=185.jpg"> <STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5>아는 사람을 만나면 먼저</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> "안녕하십니까?</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000 size=5> 만나서 반갑습니다" 라고 말하라.</FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><FONT size=5><IMG class=tx-daum-image style="CLEAR: none; FLOAT: none; CURSOR: pointer" hspace=1 src="http://cfs8.blog.daum.net/image/21/blog/2008/09/10/12/37/48c740f919e40&filename=%EB%A0%A8%EC%82%AC%EC%9D%B414.gif" width=292 vspace=1 border=0></FONT></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> <FONT size=5>너희가 남에게서 바라는 대로</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 남에게 해주어라.</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 모든 인간 관계가</FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 이 황금률에서 시작해 </FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT></PRE><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=5> 이 황금률로 끝난다.</FONT> </FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE><FONT color=#000080><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><FONT color=#000000> <IMG src="http://cfs9.planet.daum.net/upload_control/pcp_download.php?fhandle=NHZoUzBAZnM5LnBsYW5ldC5kYXVtLm5ldDovMTA4NzEzMzQvMS8xODguanBnLnRodW1i&filename=188.jpg"> </FONT><FONT size=5>-<FONT color=#000000> 리더스 다이제스트 中에서 - </FONT></FONT></STRONG></FONT></FONT> </PRE></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #666666" align=center><PRE> </PRE><PRE> </PRE> <DIV style="COLOR: #1f3425"></DIV> <DIV style="COLOR: #1f3425" align=center><FONT color=#000080 size=2><FONT face=바탕><STRONG><A style="COLOR: #1f3425; 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